All the trouble we women go through to appear more attractive to the opposite sex.  Is it worth it?  Are we making the right choices?  Well, a recent survey from ivillage may put some myths to rest.  In a very scientific study( ha ha),  men were asked what they found attractive or unattractive.  You may be surprised at the results:

Here is the list of what the participants found Hot and Not:

HOT -Red Lipstick, Long Hair, Cleavage, Laughter, Playing Hard to Get

NOT -Stilettos (make a woman too tall), Brazilian Bikini Waxes, Lingerie, Fake Being Into Sports, and  Too Much Perfume

Of course it really comes down to a matter of taste.  Probably the best thing you can do is just be you.  But I think they are right on with the red lipstick.